You have it in you to feel happy, fulfilled, inspired, valued, confident... If you’re looking to external things to make you feel a certain way, stop. Seriously. You won’t find it out there. At least not long-term.
You don’t believe me? You think, “If I just had ___, I’d be happy.” Or, “If he just ___, I’d feel valued.” Or, “Once I ___, I’ll be confident.” Maybe. But, it’d be fleeting. The feeling will start to fade and you will be looking for the next external thing to bring it back. I’m sure you’ve already had that experience.
Instead, look internally. We've talked about this before. You possess the power to take control of your life and your feelings. Really. You have what you need to get what you want. You can change your life now if you want to—without any external help. You just need to be open to examining your thoughts and coming up with some new ones. That’s the golden opportunity. Take it